Friday, April 23, 2010

school romance

it's an old recurring issue but like an old record, it keeps on playing and playing. yes, students have confided in me that they were jilted by their girlfriends and have now sort of in a very depressing mood and no more interested in studies. they have almost given up on life and are hanging in there just because they are still young and know that deep in their heart, they will survive and have new romances or love. the thing is school romances rarely last because as one grows older, you'll meet new acquaintances, new people, new interests, new outlook and new perception of what makes a good life partner... so, students, i would advise you all to hold your love.. do not commit yourself until after you have started working... it's never too late or too old... love can wait.. your studies and career won't... so, muck up and concentrate on your studies....

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  1. u know it...don't you?actually i agree your opinion...but do you know?not everybody will accept your advice...some of them will even defy your advice...some of them will be not listening to your advice...they will follow their own way...reason?perhaps i can answer your...'love is blind'...can this answer satisfy you?nowadays community is a degenerate society...they feel that love is paramount and everything for them...in the consequences they will neglect their homework in the school...perhaps teenagers' affection are not acceptable in school life...but what can we do?segregate them in different classes or expel one of them from the school?this issue is perplexing in my messy mind...some of them are infatuated with their lovers...i just want to tell you...this nessecant problem will be occuring in the future...

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  2. well, some people need to learn the hard way...

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  3. don't worry.. they'll learn sooner or later..

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  4. haha...but maybe their mature thought are still buried in their mind...can't even realise anything...

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  5. totally agree with you mr.poh :)
    study is important than everything now. heehee.

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  6. yes... concentrate on your studies first... THAT can come later... the later the better, cos you'll have experienced meeting more people and can tell the false from the real...

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  7. Perhaps school romance is one of the process in life..it is an experience..maintaining everything in balance should be fine..

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  8. well, it's called puppy love ... the thing is do not be too involved that it affects one's studies...

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